The Gift no one wants for Christmas
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I’ve never had to convince anyone that joy is good, but sorrow is a tougher sell. We confuse the favor of God with the benefits of living in a blessed country during an era of relative prosperity. However, the words of Jesus himself in John 16:33, “In this world you will have trouble,” defy the idea of a picture-perfect existence. The Bible doesn’t run from sorrow, but rather encourages us to see it as a blessing or a gift. There are several benefits of opening this gift
Sorrow connects us to the comfort of God’s presence. The Sermon on the Mount is Jesus’s most extensive monologue, and is the best foundation we have on which to build a theology about the blessing and favor of God. In it, he mentions eight specific “blessings,” including poverty, hunger, and persecution. One has grown near and dear to my heart: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4). Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be invited to come near. God’s beautiful, intimate presence is the blessing in our sorrow. When we are suffering, he comes near. He calls us near. He draws us out of our hurting and into his healing. It’s not just because we need to be with him, it’s also because he loves to be with us. Here’s another verse just to prove it:So the Lord must wait for you to come to him so he can show you his love and compassion. For the Lord is a faithful God. Blessed are those who wait for his help (Isaiah 30:18). The gift of sorrow is really a gift of God’s unbroken companionship.
God is gracious to us at the sound of our weeping. He uses adversity and affliction to draw us to himself and to reveal himself to us in ways we have not seen before. God’s comforting presence is an extravagant reward, one that we can undervalue … until we are overwhelmed by sorrow.
God is near to the brokenhearted, and I have the blessing of allowing sorrow to usher me right into the presence of Jesus.
Sorrow connects us to the heart of Jesus for His world. “Jesus wept” (John 11:35) Jesus wept because his friends wept. He felt what they felt. He felt the sting of sorrow because he loved them. I often think of this one startling idea: Jesus weeps with me. The one who created the concept of emotion does not live in a state of anesthetized indifference. He hurts for the hurting.
Jesus feels deeply for us. He feels sadness with us and for us. Sorrow led him to lay his life down for us. When we experience sorrow, it helps us understand his heart for the world that lies trapped beneath the sway of the heartache of sin. When we taste sorrow’s tears, we become more like Jesus by learning to share in his suffering. If we’ll let it, sorrow can keep our hearts connected to his heart of compassion for our world.
Sorrow connects us to the hearts of those who suffer. It helps others to know I’ve been there and can weep with those who weep. The sorrow I have experienced provides a unique way for the joy of walking in my calling. I am learning to not be surprised by sorrow. I hope that the inevitable result will be a whole new level of joy. God is brilliant at using all of my life including sorrow to create a perfect work. That is a gift.