My best friend has said goodbye to both of her parents. They are part of the great cloud of witnesses. They have shaped my life as well as their 5 children, 15 grandchildren, 25 great grandkids and 2 great-great grandkids. I cannot remember many childhood memories without this family. They went to my church, gave me my first job, taught me to like chili rellenos, prayed and played with me. For better or worse, I am who I am because of Jay and Pat.