Category: Jim

Three Years

Dear Jim, What would I say to you if I could see you today, three years after you left earth for heaven? I know that there are events and thoughts that happen all the time that I want to tell you about.  For example, I work at church now as an Admin in the Student…

By Mirm November 5, 2013 1

My post today as I get ready for tomorrow…

This is morbidly funny on the anniversary eve of Jim’s graduation to glory! (Just the kind of thing he would have told) (A lesson to be learned from typing the wrong email address!!!!) A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during  a particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the…

By Mirm November 4, 2013 1

33 years!

I know some might consider it silly to keep celebrating my anniversary even though Jim is in heaven but on this date I changed my name, committed my life to another and began a new family.  That family still exists and I am dedicated to its survival. I just cannot ignore a day that forever…

By Mirm August 23, 2013 0

My biggest fear

One thing I was often fearful of was that I loved Jim too much and so God would take him from me.  Then my worst fear came true.  I know that is not accurate because I know that is not what God is like. And yet, on really dark days I still wonder if there…

By Mirm October 23, 2012 0

21!

Jim was diagnosed 21 months before he went to heaven and now it has been 21 months since he has been there. Today the sermon was all about marriage. UGH! Had I known I would have skipped it! It is so hard to feel like I fit anywhere anymore. On another, more positive note, my…

By Mirm August 5, 2012 0

The ABC’s of Jim Mohler

In Honor of the Anniversary of Jim’s Birth  11/8/55 Amusing* Brilliant *Creative* Dad *Encourager* Faithful *Godly* Husband* Integrity* Jazzy *Kite flyer* Lover *Magical* N-tertainer* Original* Puppeteer *Quest for Christlikeness* Rhythmic *Strong Leader *Teacher* Unique *Valiant *Wise* Xtra- Smart *Youthworker *Zany

By Mirm November 8, 2011 1

Further Up and Further In

One year ago today Jesus carried Jim to heaven!  Today I know he is continuing to move “further up and further in” and for Jim the real adventures are just beginning!  We too are moving further up and further into our grief. I guess enough people told me that the first year would be the…

By Mirm November 5, 2011 1

Jim’s One Year “Going Home” Anniversary

Hey Everyone!  In case you are out of the loop….Or don’t have access to Facebook :  I wanted to invite you to : Jim’s One Year “Going Home” Anniversary Saturday, November 5  6:00pm – 9:00pm Huntington State Beach, CA near Magnolia This is a Save-the-Date notice! Bring your dinner or the fix-ins to cook over…

By Mirm October 11, 2011 1

Eleven in Heaven

Today Jim has been in heaven for 11 months, but I know it only counts on this side of it for those of is who are waiting (to finally enter Narnia)! I think of the 4th verse of the hymn Amazing Grace: “When we’ve been there 10,000 years, bright shining as the sun, we’ve no…

By Mirm October 5, 2011 2

Letters from heaven!

I am still processing what I think about what I am about to share, but I know God orchestrates things for us beyond what we can imagine.  This week I was especially sad.  And that is okay…even expected.  But here is what happened.  Other people let me know of their own sadness, of “Jim-sightings” ,…

By Mirm September 22, 2011 1