Category: Family

2 years

Dear Clayton and Amanda – It is only 2 years in but it is already hard for me to remember the life before you were married! The work that you have put in and the relationship you continue to forge is a sweet thing to observe. I would remind you that the marriage is best…

By Mirm June 4, 2025 0

Tenacity

I wish I could add pictures to the definitions of some words in the dictionary. If I could I one to tenacity it would be a picture of Emily in her cap and gown. When Emily graduated from high school and started at Biola in 2011, Jim had not been dead very long. Not only…

By Mirm May 19, 2025 0

Pops Concert 2025

In the fall of 1977, when I started as a freshman at Biola, my dad told Mr. Lutke that I played clarinet. Mr. Lutke persistently called me until I would give him an audition and a promise to give the band a try. If I had not joined, I would never have met Jim nor…

By Mirm April 27, 2025 0

The Next Steps

3 Weeks ago, my mom fell getting out of her recliner as her feet got tangled up. She fractured her pelvis and spent the next weeks in the hospital and rehab. She is now at home, and we have ordered a pendant with fall detection as well as other safety items for a senior. The…

By Mirm April 18, 2025 0

10 years Ago!

April 11, 2015 is the day that my daughter married. Since that day they have had ups and downs and, in my opinion, more downs than are reasonable. They have persevered in all that bad “weather”. They love each other more now than they did when they began. I made Connor promise to never give…

By Mirm April 11, 2025 0

Linda Lee 4/2/25

On May 17th we gathered as a family to honor Linda so I amended what I already wrote for the time with our family. It is my job and my honor to offer us comfort, instill hope and remind us that God is still good. We gather and our hearts are broken wide open. I…

By Mirm April 2, 2025 0

Happy Birthday Mom! #90

Today my mom is 90 years old. 32,850 days. 788,400 hours. 47,304,000 +/- minutes. 1 faithful husband. 4 amazing children + 4 spouses. 10 brilliant grandchildren+ 5 grand-spouses. countless friends. lots of travel. a plethora of pies. many meals. several million stitches sewn. Today is a truly remarkable milestone – Mom’s 90th birthday! It is…

By Mirm March 13, 2025 0

Clayton is 29!

Happy Birthday to you Clayton. We certainly have been through many adventures and  changes over the years. I realize that you have now lived longer without your dad than you did with him. That makes me sad! And yet the short window he and I had to steward our kids as parents still informs the…

By Mirm March 4, 2025 0

Connor is 35!

Dear Connor As I sit here reflecting on the years since you both joined our family and formed a new one with Emily, I can’t help but feel a deep sense of gratitude to our good God for the wonderful man you are and the joyful privilege it is to call you “son”. Watching you and…

By Mirm March 2, 2025 0